I'm not the one who always be the right person, and so do you. I'm not the one who always have a time for everything, so do you. I'm not the one who always say " yes i'll do that " and then in a second my work will be done. No, i'm not that kind of person who give you a promise that i can't keep. So, if i say " sorry i can't give you a promise " then you don't have to catch me. Because if i said i can't then i can't. Somehow people doesn't understand why the other are so busy with their work, they just think " Oh, they do nothing " and then they try to catch that person and push him/her to say " yes yes i promised " . People have to learn to understand the other before they wanna be understood.
pics from Lookbook: Marcel Floruss
A few days ago, i received an email from one of my reader. Thank you so
much for reading my blog, without them this blog is nothing :) Well, they make
a request for me to give them an advise about “How to Dress on Your First Date”
but it’s for a men. So, here’s my advice
(of course from my view);
1.
Shoes
Women will always love shoes, even if not their shoes (yes, it yours)
Pick a nice one, a simple sneakers or something that will match your looks. But
please don’t wear sandals on your first date. If you wear it, you will lose one
point.
2.
Clothes
It’s so important for the first time, because you can’t ignore it that
you will always judge people with their first look. Dress for it, but don’t wear "too much", if you plan to wear suit, make sure you are going to the right place ( like watching opera, or something that you have to wear it) You can wear a shirt (without a tie ,of course) plus a jacket or sweater would be
great. The most important is wear a clothes that fit you and make you more
confident. Ah, if you worried about what are you wearing inside, you can check out Men's Underwear!
3.
Grooming
Cut your fingernails, take a bath (of course haha) don’t forget to wash
your hair. Because women will always know the details of your looks. Put a
parfume, women will love it when you smell nice.
4.
No acessories
Watch is fine. But please don’t wear something that not really “good” for
your first time. Like a hat with a “bad guy” caption maybe, or necklace that
really annoying, or a pin. The point is, don’t wear anything that will make
women think twice about you.
That’s a simple advise from me. And please put your phone on silent,
women will hate it if you go on date with her but all your focus just for your
phone.
" Terimakasih Tuhan, untuk keindahan yang begitu sempurna yang bisa aku nikmati ini. Terimakasih sudah memberikanku kesehatan hingga hari ini sehingga aku masih bisa melihat keindahan yang sudah Engkau ciptakan. Aku tau, aku harus selalu bersyukur setiap detiknya. Karena nikmat Mu tidak akan pernah ada habisnya "
by the way, this is my weekend i spent with my family at South of The Beach Resort in Bantul, DIY. Well, this place is a recomended on if you wanna spent your weekend in Yogyakarta. You can swim or just to take a picture here for only Rp.75.000,- You can see Parangtritis beach from here :) Happy Holiday!